I sincerely request that you step away from the keyboard until after valentines day
(memes.memedroid.com)
I think most HOAs are established by the property developers specifically to keep housing prices high, not to serve the community. They serve profits and treat homes as an investment asset. And they have specific laws that make them undemocratic and oppressive, and reward a specific type of person to take over. So that is why they are hated.
Maybe they should be renamed to "property development organization" or something because they don't really work for actual home owners.