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Anon joins girl's night (sh.itjust.works)
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[–] 25 points 3 weeks ago (12 children)

I had a scenario like this when I was couch surfing while going to college. So there I am in a attic room surrounded by 5? girls and I thought to myself wtf am I doing here. I just came here to do my laundry, my friends girlfriend said it was okay and I could take showers there as well. In hindsight, I realized I'm an idiot. She showed me her room as well. I totally missed the subtle messages; she was very intelligent, she explained her school project about the function of ATP (Adenosine triphosphate). But hey I was a brain dead skateboarder then lol

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  • [–] 16 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

    Idk, sounds to me like they feel comfortable around you.

    I have a few close female friends, one I even usually share a bed with on trips. I asked her why it's like this once and it boiled down to "you don't expect anything from me".

    I do have a partner and usually hang out mostly with women, so maybe I'm just not attractive, who knows

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  • [–] 12 points 3 weeks ago (1 child)

    I mean looking back, I don't disagree. One of the girls would help me with random stuff. Another always wanted to take photos together and put them online, I said no thank you to that. I think that people have different interpretations of attraction. In a way I found being taught about ATP very attractive but I wasn't going to interject myself between her and my friend. So you probably have an attractiveness beyond a physical appearance.

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  • [–] 19 points 3 weeks ago* (4 children)

    I don’t know if you’re the idiot you think you are. You didn’t do anything, which rationalised the trust and why they let you in that circle in the first place. That’s a pretty decent level of trust very few men get to.

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  • [–] 9 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

    I would say I'm oblivious at the least. Working in retail I made quite a few female friends, understandably my girlfriend at the time didn't like that even though I was trying to find friends for her to hang out with after moving to a new place since I could just talk to my friend group on teamspeak and I didn't want her to feel lonely. I learned the hard way they liked me basically.

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  • [–] 9 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

    And they had reason to, you’ve shown it again

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  • [–] 4 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

    I don't understand I'm a braindead biker

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  • [–] 3 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

    I had turned into a biker at one point. It was about an eight mile ride to get this shot. Probably one of my favorite, and probably because riding all the way up there.

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