β² 27 βΌ Advice (lemmings.world) submitted 1 year ago by frithwyn@lemmings.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml 44 comments fedilink hide all child comments What advice would you give to a girl turning 14 in 3 months? Basically things you wish you knew while you were 14. Edit: I'm going into 11th or 12th grade by September. Due to my Country's education system. Any advice for that would be appreciated too. Thanks Thank you all for the advice π
[β] frithwyn@lemmings.world [S] 2 points 1 year ago (5 children) Could you please elaborate on that? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 5 child comments replies: [β] cRazi_man@europe.pub 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children) I would say this is not something you need to worry about. I would ignore this advice. It doesn't apply to the vast majority of people and is not something a 14 year old should worry about. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] frithwyn@lemmings.world [S] 1 point 1 year ago (1 child) Yes. I was planning on looking into that advice when I'm older. Say early 20's. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [β] cRazi_man@europe.pub 4 points 1 year ago Also, my advice would be to not take advice from people like this online. Find role models in real life who you admire and can look up to and ask them about this stuff. Adults don't have everything figured out as much as you think. The comment above is a perfect example, where an adult seems to be preoccupied with one specific issue that they possibly struggled with......and that likely doesn't apply to you at all. Find people in your life who are good, who are doing good and who are being good. Talk to these people. Look for mentors in real life. As a general rule: nothing you read online should be taken seriously. It is too difficult to filter what is important and true, from what is not. permalink fedilink source parent [β] JumpyWombat@lemmy.ml 0 points 1 year ago (1 child) Fertility drops sooner than what people think, and that includes the quality and quantity of eggs that can be produced for in vitro fertilisation. Check how frequent the donation of eggs is, especially for women beyond 35 and consider that today itβs relatively common to have the first kid around that age. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [β] frithwyn@lemmings.world [S] 2 points 1 year ago Thanks π permalink fedilink source parent
[β] cRazi_man@europe.pub 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children) I would say this is not something you need to worry about. I would ignore this advice. It doesn't apply to the vast majority of people and is not something a 14 year old should worry about. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] frithwyn@lemmings.world [S] 1 point 1 year ago (1 child) Yes. I was planning on looking into that advice when I'm older. Say early 20's. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [β] cRazi_man@europe.pub 4 points 1 year ago Also, my advice would be to not take advice from people like this online. Find role models in real life who you admire and can look up to and ask them about this stuff. Adults don't have everything figured out as much as you think. The comment above is a perfect example, where an adult seems to be preoccupied with one specific issue that they possibly struggled with......and that likely doesn't apply to you at all. Find people in your life who are good, who are doing good and who are being good. Talk to these people. Look for mentors in real life. As a general rule: nothing you read online should be taken seriously. It is too difficult to filter what is important and true, from what is not. permalink fedilink source parent
[β] frithwyn@lemmings.world [S] 1 point 1 year ago (1 child) Yes. I was planning on looking into that advice when I'm older. Say early 20's. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [β] cRazi_man@europe.pub 4 points 1 year ago Also, my advice would be to not take advice from people like this online. Find role models in real life who you admire and can look up to and ask them about this stuff. Adults don't have everything figured out as much as you think. The comment above is a perfect example, where an adult seems to be preoccupied with one specific issue that they possibly struggled with......and that likely doesn't apply to you at all. Find people in your life who are good, who are doing good and who are being good. Talk to these people. Look for mentors in real life. As a general rule: nothing you read online should be taken seriously. It is too difficult to filter what is important and true, from what is not. permalink fedilink source parent
[β] cRazi_man@europe.pub 4 points 1 year ago Also, my advice would be to not take advice from people like this online. Find role models in real life who you admire and can look up to and ask them about this stuff. Adults don't have everything figured out as much as you think. The comment above is a perfect example, where an adult seems to be preoccupied with one specific issue that they possibly struggled with......and that likely doesn't apply to you at all. Find people in your life who are good, who are doing good and who are being good. Talk to these people. Look for mentors in real life. As a general rule: nothing you read online should be taken seriously. It is too difficult to filter what is important and true, from what is not. permalink fedilink source parent
[β] JumpyWombat@lemmy.ml 0 points 1 year ago (1 child) Fertility drops sooner than what people think, and that includes the quality and quantity of eggs that can be produced for in vitro fertilisation. Check how frequent the donation of eggs is, especially for women beyond 35 and consider that today itβs relatively common to have the first kid around that age. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [β] frithwyn@lemmings.world [S] 2 points 1 year ago Thanks π permalink fedilink source parent