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[–] 0 points 1 month ago

No means "No", not "stop asking". "Stop asking" means "stop asking". "We're not having sex tonight", "i don't fuck on a first date", and others say "don't even ask", but a mere "no" doesn't. And even asking after they say "stop asking" is itself consent respecting, because its literally a request for consent.

Consent is the single and all-important bright line, and globbing behaviors that are merely rude or ignoble with actual coercisve.activity like "control the environment" or "express anger" is not accurate or helpful.

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