But this breaks automatic updates without entering the BIOS
Maybe I'm misunderstanding a technical aspect here, but wouldn't only the bootloader need to be signed? To my understanding a tamper-proof system already assumes full disk-encryption anyway, so any kinds of automatic updates would be happening in a black box anyway, wouldn't it?
and is just not feasible except for the PC on your desk at home
That's probably a different and more value-based discussion and I'm quite sure you didn't intend it that way, but it's hard for me to put into words how much this sentence structure offends me 😅
A benefit to the users in front of their personal computers can never be an exception, it is (... ought to be) always the point of everything, the end goal. Having a solution that benefits end users and puts other entities at a disadvantage is always preferable over a solution that puts end users at a disadvantage for the benefit of other entities.