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[–] 5 points 1 month ago

that's awful. I'm sorry this happened to you. not to see this in a gendered light unnecessarily, but it also feels like such a man-thing to say. i sure know I've caught myself saying similar stuff in the past because I was looking at the problem at hand from too much of an analytical pov instead of just listening and being emotionally supportive instead. i hope it's gotten somewhat better for you two since then

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