I will pay extra for devices that don't spy on me. There's a market for it, and I'm the target audience. If I don't fork out for devices that respect my privacy, they won't exist in the future, and I can kiss goodbye the chance of ever having a full suite of devices that aren't constantly selling every moment of my life to advertisers and whoever else wants it.
My next phone will probably run GrapheneOS. My car is a 2016 hatchback that I removed the OnStar module from myself. I don't have Alexa, I don't have a smart home, I don't have a Ring doorbell. My laptop is a Framework that I'm strongly considering installing Linux on as its primary OS. Every computer I use has Firefox as its browser with multiple privacy-focused plugins. Your argument is shit and you should feel bad for making it. More devices that respect privacy is better, and just throwing your hands up and saying 'They all do it, give up!' is both idiotic and counter-productive.