Moment I came out as trans, people in public chats I was in started thinking they had the right to just start talking about what was in my pants.

Just suddenly becoming some sort of sex object for people was annoying as hell. People rarely said that to me as a man, and yet suddenly it's as casual for people to talk about it as it is for them to ask who's on the other end of a phone call.

It's absurdly common, and I hate that I'm just some fetish to men even when I'm not into them.