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This is exactly why you shouldn’t film a TikTok while overly emotional and driving (cdn.imgchest.com)
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[–] 14 points 2 months ago (16 children)

I am aware, and it is stupid.

You're still being sexist. If you don't want to be sexist, and want to reduce the sexism on lemmy, you could just describe it any other way.

She's fucking stupid.

She's a childish piece of shit.

This stupid fuck could have killed someone.

Like why are you so tied to this word, and why is that more important to you than the bigotry it carries?

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  • [–] -2 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (15 children)

    If a person would be male , I would call him a stupid bastard / prick / dick . Or a bitch.

    And she's a stupid bitch, who could have killed somebody.
    "Hard b" is warranted.

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  • [–] 3 points 2 months ago (14 children)

    None of which carry the same sexist history or impact. Why is invoking sexism warranted and why is it more important to you than making lemmy a less sexist space?

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  • [–] 0 points 2 months ago (13 children)

    Don't protect her.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago (12 children)

    Not the smartest one are ya?

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  • [–] 0 points 2 months ago (11 children)

    Are insults warranted here?

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago (10 children)

    Yes, because that was an incredible dumb thing to say...

    She's not here, I am not protecting her, I am saying you're being sexist and I asked why it's more important to you that you insult someone that will never see it in ways that can hurt those that will and you said I am protecting her.

    Seems you don't want to answer the question. Why is is it important to you to be sexist in insulting this woman?

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  • [–] 1 point 2 months ago (9 children)

    The thing is, I don't consider it sexism to call her a stupid bitch.
    Your personal view on that matter differs from mine. Well then.

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  • [–] 1 point 2 months ago (8 children)

    Why is this insult more important to you than making an environment that would make many women uncomfortable and find sexist?

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  • [–] 0 points 2 months ago* (7 children)

    Did you read my comment?

    P.S.
    I think you wanted to write "less women"instead of "many women"

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  • [–] 1 point 2 months ago (6 children)

    I did. I am saying you feel that you using this specific insult is more important to you than the downside of making an environment that many women feel is uncomfortable and sexist. I don't care if you personally find it sexist or not.

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  • [–] 1 point 2 months ago* (5 children)

    I don't care if you personally find it sexist or not.

    Why should I care that you find it sexist?

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  • [–] 1 point 2 months ago (4 children)

    I guess I would have to cite Mr. Rogers et al. on the benefits of basic kindness towards your fellow humans. Would you say the same for the N word?

    Regardless of my personal take on why this stood out as particularly sexist, why is this particular insult so important that it's worth being hurtful to those it might more meaningfully impact?

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  • [–] 0 points 2 months ago* (3 children)

    being hurtful to those it might more meaningfully impact?

    The thing is: I don't believe you that calling a tiktok zombie from the video a stupid bitch is hurtful to women.

    My personal opinion doesn't matter to you, your doesn't matter to me.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago (2 children)

    Do you recognize that many women would see it as unnecessarily sexist? That you could have just as easily used any similar ungendered insult and not hurt those that find it makes them uncomfortable?

    I didn't start this saying you or the comment were sexist, I started letting you know some folks might feel hurt by it. With this constant defense the question continues to be, why is it more important to you specifically that you use this specific insult even if others are bothered by it?

    Like genuinely, why doesn't it matter to you that it hurts other people's feelings? And why is it so important that you say it on a public forum?

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