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[–] 9 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I disagree (so good post) but I do like that you called out "provided they are available and practical" first.

I have a family member who just calls out of the blue, and then worse they get mad when you say you can't talk. So first they force me into a situation where I know I have to disappoint them, then they get mad at me for disappointing them. I've asked them so many times "Just text first, I'll let you know if I'm free" but they refuse to do that. So now when they call I have a decision: Answer them and get yelled at, or ignore the call. Guess what they trained me to do. Now they wonder why I don't pick up anymore.

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