Is it getting worse? I had a 65 year old man (my deceased father's best friend) be open with me about it. This man cant get through a single sentence without making a sexual comment about women. When I was dealing with my fathers death, he was helping.. and I got sick of it after asking multiple times, and yelled at him. In the moment of chaos, I said, yelled, I have been raped okay! Please fucking stop!

Later he shared with me how this is how he copes with that trauma. So, maladaptive, but he said it, outloud, and understood the whys.

That took courage, and idk. I think its getting better. I can be kinda nieve though.