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    I was not trying to be rude here.

    I was trying to make a point that, when we are faced with choices having only unpleasant options — taking one of those unpleasant options is still a choice.

    We have limited agency in this world, and saying “I had no choice, I had to do it” instead of “of the various choices I had, I picked this one as least-bad” is a kind of self-delusion that makes our lives feel even more constrained than they really are.

    Keeping this awareness in mind, that I do have other choices, helps me hold my emotions together in times like now when I find myself choosing to swallow a shit sandwich as my best-available option.

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