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If my partner (biological-female) comes out as a trans-man. Wouldn't still being attracted to him make me (biological-male) homosexual? (lemmy.world)

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[–] melsaskca@lemmy.ca 4 points 3 months ago

Love is love and people change over time. Would you consider yourself a gay man if you had anal sex with your female wife? Sex is not love.