Amateur is the best stuff and I agree with pretty much everything you said, except:

choking seem to have become a thing all of the sudden.

This is something I really enjoy a lot so I like seeing it in porn 🫣

Not to mention any number of women looking like they're choking and gagging while doing oral.

But this is one that I also find gross, not sexy at all, and will immediately switch to something else.

And I don’t feel like you really yucked anyone’s yum 💚