Say you learn that a bunch of creepy people are jacking it to a picture of your feet. You feel disgusted. You feel objectified. You feel like you are violated. Then, after feeling like this for a while, you learn it isn't a picture of your feet, it's someone else's feet. However, all the creeps jerking it to that picture have also been thinking it's your feet. Many of them still think it's your feet.

How do you feel? Do your feelings change at all? To me, it just seems so arbitrary. Like imagine a prude artist who's painting a nude model, but they don't want to draw a penis, so they get a different artist to draw the penis for them. It's still their name that's signed on the painting. The painting still has a penis. Maybe they should just get over their arbitrary hangups on nudity and paint the damn thing themselves?