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[–] 60 points 4 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 child)

My mother died 11 months ago. Brain cancer.
I just kept going. If I had to go to work, I did. If I had to take a minute or 20 to collect myself at a random moment, I took it.

Before her diagnosis in December of 2024, we were planing on her visiting, and us going to see White Sands a couple hours away from my place. I took the trip last April, just me and a little urn. That was a good trip. A few days mostly alone in a quiet place.

It worried my father, my going by myself. But I reminded him, even as a kid I always wanted solitude when I was upset, this wasn't any different.

But that's me. You should trust yourself. Greve Grieve how you feel is right for you.

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  • [–] 12 points 3 months ago

    Greve how you feel is right for you.

    This typo is extremely on brand, follow for more Greve with Steve tips.

    In all seriousness, that sounds lovely. You're a good dude for writing this and trying to help out

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