Hahah that’s such a strangely specific “milestone” to be thinking about. That somebody tells you you’re attractive and that you may not be attracted to them?

Maybe you just need to date more. There’s no shortage of people who you will find unattractive and I’m sure some of them will find you attractive.

But ask why that’s important to you and why you think of that as a milestone. Try 5 why’s. Go deeper. Then you’ll have your answer.

I can understand though that a milestone might be validation from society so you can move on to not caring about what people think because you know that, in this case, you’re attractive.

Just post your pictures online somewhere and ask people. You’ll get some validation and some rejection.

Sorry times are tough. Hoping you get through this chapter quickly, but it is just a chapter in your longer, beautiful story.