Growing out of thinking that judging people and running our mouths is the same thing as being a truthteller. Lot of people never get past that.

Then there's the final boss which is realizing that we live a community and other people matter because they define our lived experience. A milestone so elusive that apparently some people can only reach it with the help of psychedelics.

Your millage by differ from culture to culture, these are specifically late milestones for white americans, but it's obviously not everyone.