>Sees rule saying women only

>Fully recognizing that his commenting breaks the rule

>Comments anyway

Your comment is otherwise respectful and kind, so I'm sure you thought you were doing something nice here...

And while I think there's something to be said about the fact that you seem to have had some specific (if vague, still searchable probably) information to share, and I'm sure you're just trying to be helpful... This is a key example of the difficulty of curating a relatively public women-only space: Men in general just don't seem to care when they're not wanted somewhere.

"Feel free to delete this" they will definitely feel free because that's what mods do when someone breaks the rules. They don't need your permission for that.