First off, women did not make that decision. It was the decision of men to bar young men from leaving Ukraine, so this is not relevant to the discussion. If you want to complain about anyone for this, complain about the men in power; it doesn't make sense to blame women for this.

Second off, you should really read the rules of the community here. The kind of hateful false equivalence you've shown indicates to me that you are more than likely a man. The very first rule of this community is that it is women only (and nonbinary folks that feel it is appropriate for them to participate in a women's space). So please pack up and go elsewhere, as this is meant to be a safe space for women without the intervention of men.