conflating my replies for abrasive people with me being abrasive

also:

conflating my replies for abrasive people with my reply for someone that posted an off-topic link under possibly good intentions

When I tell you you come across as an insufferable asshole, I'm not lying like you are when you say it to me

Btw, I notice how you're incredibly obvious about your connection to the other user that just made a similar comment - that's on purpose, surely, meant to be noticed right? Another layer of the gaslighting, being incredibly obvious about fucked up harassment behaviors but knowing you can deny them while Nazi herd mentality will also deny the obviousness