I’m willing to pay just not on agregious amount of money.

Me too. I wanna support the artists I like.

I've used Bandcamp before. I was able to sign up anonymously and use a masked credit card to pay for music. Sure I could pirate it. But I feel like that's a dick move, esp for smaller bands I like a lot.

Playing music privately, that's the trivial part! A million ways to do that, without sending any info to anyone, either at home or on the go.