One time, I met a cute girl at a social function, and she was really cool and we got along super well. The following semester, I was surprised to be in the same class as her, so I went over to her after class and just started chatting and hanging out and was surprised how quiet and serious she was in a school setting, but she opened up over time.
Anyway, you see where this is going. Not quite the same, but often to limitation of knowing someone before befriending them is self-imposed