Wait, so when you use emotional language it’s “I’m allowed to talk how I want” but if I follow your rules and do the same you call it a “crash out”. Nice perspective and nice new account.

“Argument” isn’t just when your parents yell at each other and your dad hits your mom. You were very clearly making an argument. And now you’re arguing that you were not making an argument. Now you’re backing away from your argument because it can’t be argued anymore. Hope this explanation helps.