Even better, drop the boomery gender BS and just refer to them both as members of their species, for starters. 😅☝🏼

eg. "A person shouldn't cause discomfort to another, and if they opt to do so, they should first be aware of the consequences of that choice —for all parties."

and

"A person can wear whatever they feel like, and no one has the 'right' to comment on it, regardless if it's a critique or compliment."

IMHO, "We're lucky when they consent to our awareness of it, and luckier still in that moment when there is no underwear." can stay, though. 🤘🏼