I’m not going to tell you to not read Fourth Wing because I really enjoyed it, but it may not be the cozy fantasy you are looking for. Minor spoilers; people die, violence happens, and there are sex scenes. I loved the books and recommend them, just wanted to give you a heads up.
Cozy fantasy was pretty huge a couple of years ago and there’s still a lot around. Lots in that genre would fit what you are looking for.