Take a look at the responses I've gotten here. Apparently, it's not possible to ask the question you're suggesting to neurotypical humans, as they'll undoubtedly infer from context you mean something else. I got sufficiently annoyed at their seeming inability to understand a rather simple concept. Not sure what to tell them, or you, other than my original basic premise of "word the question in such a way as that answers are useful to what you want to know, from all types of respondents". In which, I would agree with you. That is, in fact, the question being asked.