Every person I've ever met who participated in an "open relationship" became the target of profound jealousy, or became jealous themselves.

I think it sounds appealing; 🌈my partner and I love each other but our hearts are too big to only enjoy one person's company🌈 then their partner sleeps with someone else and they get all shitty and bitter.

My experience has always been "Are you sure your partner is ok with this?" --> "Yes definitely" --> The partner becomes a shitty rage machine. I had a guy corner me at dinner with my friends and yell in public because he was so jealous. He agreed to the open relationship. He was a hypocrite. All three of us suffered because he couldn't handle it. He should not have been in an open relationship.

That was the worst one but I think it applies to most people. It's a pipe dream that they don't have the emotional maturity to actualize.

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[–] 1 point 6 months ago

This is not an unpopular opinion, only cronically online Reddit dwellers would down vote your opinion for not being what they want to hear.

I've been the "side party" for open relationships more than once. These men would always dump on me their relationship drama, it felt as if the open relationship was the announcement of the downfall of their relationship.

After they break up they also stop wanting to be with you, most of the times they're using you to cope with their imminent breakup. When it finally ends you're no longer of use for them 🤷🏻‍♀️

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