Conflating a cross-dressing kink and trans people is not talking about a variety of spectrums, it's just innacurate

One is sexually motivated, the other isn't. It's a clear line.

I agree that people are too complex to be put into boxes, but we can talk about issues without overlapping them with completely separate ideas because of surface level similarities like wearing clothing designed for a different sex than your biological one.

The spectrum of people with humiliation or cross dressing kicks and trans people are two circles that might overlap like a Venn diagram, but they're fundamentally different and acting like they aren't is reducing trans people to sexually motivated fetishists. Its just not accurate

Again, to be perfectly clear: someone with a bimbofication kink is not on the same 'axis' as a trans person, and I find the suggestion that they are to be problematic at best and bigoted at worst

Edit:

some people dress full time, but still have the same motivations as Noems's husband

This is it really. This is not an accurate or realistic portrayal of trans people. It's a fun house mirror of trans identities pushed by bigots