Welp, you've nailed why I find it so ironic/hillarious when I'm told, at length and in excessive/invented detail, that I haven't internalized/accepted my own failures enough.

Mind you, it almost never involves (even meta-physical)injury or inconvenience to anyone else, so there's a lot of lip-flapping from people who can explain everything they have a problem with except for how what's being complained-about is any of their business or problem.