I also have NPD and I'm not okay with it. I might be okay one day far in the future when it's widely accepted, but we have a lot of work to do before we reach that point. And Neil has not told anyone that he's a member of our community. I'm willing to tolerate a pwNPD using the word, same as N word rules, but only if they claim the label in the context in which they're speaking. Neil hasn't come out on Twitter. I don't think anyone should get the power if they don't take on the responsibility.