…you see whats happening here right?

Yes. I see two men in a women's only group having long conversations with each other. In the women's only group.

Is there something else I should be seeing?

I know what I want to be seeing. I want to see two posturing baboons realize what's happening here and quietly delete their posts in embarrassment. I also, sadly, know what I expect to be seeing: at least one of the two will make excuses, protest, or otherwise miss the point entirely.