A civil war might have had less casualties than ending USAID, putting Hegseth in charge of Israel and Iran, and the potential end of US Democracy as a whole. Russia and China aren't any calmer or less bold by the Trump admin obtaining power, we're a step closer to widespread war and potential global nuclear annihilation every passing moment.
Clearly the examples you gave aren't worse outcomes than the Weimar Republic bending over and letting the Nazi Party take power.