I don't think you're understanding what I'm saying. The people saying "pussification of men" and the ones saying "not being woke enough" are two completely different groups. Your post comes off as if you're trying to conflate those to groups even though they're on completely different sides of the spectrum.
Now I feel like you're trying to paint me as being insensitive to people showing vulnerability which would be unfair and untrue. Just because I'm critical of how the new shows executed the message doesn't mean I don't agree with the message itself. I just think that message was was conveyed better in TNG era shows.