"The pass" is like "you're allowed to use this word [to refer to me, in the understanding that you're not using it as a slur]"
Using it as a slur, no matter who "gave you the pass" is what's wrong with this.
"The pass" is like "you're allowed to use this word [to refer to me, in the understanding that you're not using it as a slur]"
Using it as a slur, no matter who "gave you the pass" is what's wrong with this.