If you said he was skilled soldier, loved his wife, went to church, good father. The right would say ah yes perfect.
You saying he was caring, a good nurse, kind, went on walks with his dog. They have a fit. Why?
I think it's because they're fine with somebody being painted as a good person, as long as a good person means good citizen, a loyal citizen. They don't like hearing how someone was actually a good person. They don't like someone's moral character being brought into it, probably due to a complete lack of their own.