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[+] -6 points 9 months ago (33 children)

Hey guys, I'm new here. I have been a 🐦 follower for..... Wow way before 🍋. I've always loved and enjoyed her. Recently, when she announced her separation from 🧔, I wondered how legit she is because she'd never mentioned anything at all. So I started searching for chats and there's sooooo many.

I'll be honest - some of your comments/convos sound like you're jealous or very high school. But I'm interested in legitimate, honest opinions/information.

Thanks ☺️

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  • [–] 16 points 9 months ago (17 children)

    I can assure you it’s not jealousy. Mostly I’m pissed she’s lying about filters, botox, fillers, etc - all while promoting skincare products. She’s being dishonest about a lot of things, and no one likes her exploiting her kids, particularly the youngest one. She also lied about having a full time nanny during the pandemic, making it seem like she was balancing it all on her own. I appreciate the validation this groups gives me in feeling betrayed.

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  • [–] 11 points 9 months ago (12 children)

    I also don’t believe this is a “I’m just curious”, but I’m happy to point out the fraud she is again and again.

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  • [–] 5 points 9 months ago (11 children)

    I'm just a normal mom from Alberta 🤷‍♀️

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  • [–] 4 points 9 months ago (10 children)

    Sorry, easy to get defensive around here!

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  • [–] 7 points 9 months ago (9 children)

    I'm seeing that!! I was being legit and honest. Like, irl when someone "doesn't like someone" there's a level of jealousy there. Mention it here and I got my head bit off! I read the "intro" from Lemmy and now I'm falling through a huge rabbit hole of people who legitimately hate her and my eyes are very open now. I appreciate this discussion and correspondence.

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  • [–] 10 points 9 months ago (4 children)

    People can dislike other people without being jealous. Comparison doesn't guide everyone's thought process, like it seems to for Sarah. For example, I don't like Trump. I'm not jealous of him. If you believe there is a level of jealousy when someone doesn't like someone, I can understand your attraction to the Birds Papaya. She may have felt like a comrade in arms. GumboYaYa made a great point about mothers who tell their daughters, “Oh, honey, they are just jealous of you”. My Mother never did that; maybe your mother and Sarah's mother did. I'm not saying this to shame you. Maybe those drawn to Sarah were raised by mothers who lacked self-awareness.

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  • [–] 5 points 9 months ago (3 children)

    Ok let's chat then. But I'd appreciate it if you took a breather first.

    Not liking her because she lies, deceits, uses filters, is genuinely a bad mother or wife - cool. I can get with that.

    Making fun of her teeth, saying she is ugly, she "probably made so much money on that" - from an outsiders perspective, yeah, some of it sounds like jealousy; not in the "I wish I looked like her" way, but in a "I kind of wish I had what she has" way. Especially when you haven't met her or actually interacted with her.

    THAT BEING SAID. I have been reading tons of threads, posts, snarks (literally JUST discovered that word and what it means...) and while I see much of the disapproval of BP as legitimate (as I requested in my original post) perhaps the disdain has encompassed the persona AND the looks (that she manipulates and makes money off of).

    So chill. There's no ulterior motive here. I'm genuinely curious, and up until literally a couple months ago, I was an avid follower of the BP and now I'm learning who she truly is and I, too, feel manipulated, lied to and like an utter fool for believing in her and genuinely liking her.

    But attacking me - someone who you have never met - doesn't make you any better than her.

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  • [–] 9 points 9 months ago (1 child)

    Note that when certain things are mentioned like her teeth or lips, it’s often referring to her “real” teeth showing vs her filtered teeth. Pointing out her crooked teeth are unfiltered - as a clue as to what she’s filtered, not a criticism of her actual features, though I can see how it could look like we’re attacking her features.

    Once you’ve read more on the reddit threads too, you’ll see a lot of people saying they find her natural features more attractive than her filtered ones. Another huge point is the pain we feel for her daughters, as she filters away the same features they share genetically - as though it’s not good enough. Truly awful to do to your children.

    But with any group, yes, some people will be critical of her appearance, though I’d say most the group is reasonable in how they criticize her (focusing on her actions and fraud).

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  • [–] [S] 8 points 9 months ago

    I don’t think anyone here ‘wants what she has’ since she doesn’t seem to have anything that really matters. She has a lot of material wealth but seems to lack any long-lasting friendships. Her relationships all appear transactional. She’s just ended her second marriage. That’s not something most people want. She seems to lack any real curiosity about the world or anything meaningful. Her life seems very empty to me. She’s spending her time chasing fame without any real talent. I would rather not spend my days taking picture of myself in my underwear and preach about wearing bikinis like that’s the most important thing.

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  • [–] 10 points 9 months ago* (2 children)

    The assumption that when women call other women out for their bullshit means there is a level of jealously is wrong on many levels. That’s exactly what the person who is being called out says. It makes me think of the mothers who tell their daughters “oh honey they are just jealous of you” instead of helping their girls to grow and become self aware of their behaviors…we just say others are jealous. And they grow up never having learned how to see themselves. I am responding, respectfully, but in some ways defending the women who have grown tired of the lying that women influencers are doing and the damage it is causing.

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  • [–] 9 points 9 months ago (3 children)

    I agree. Have you ever seen the show How I Met Your Mother when everyone realizes something about the other person in the group and there's a sound of a glass shattering? That's how it's felt for me lately. Just this....... "wait a minute" moment. I am feeling validated though!

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  • [–] [S] 11 points 9 months ago (2 children)

    If you poke around Reddit you’ll see comments from people who know her and find your feelings are correct

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  • [–] 13 points 9 months ago (7 children)

    Hi, new here, wow! To be honest, you sound very grade 10, maipulative and suspect.

    If you are new to #thebirdspapaya snark, why are you using symbols for Lemmie, Shane Landry and Sarah Nicole Landry? How did you know the exact symbols to use? Did you pick that up from cruising the Reddit pages for hours on end? Over here on Lemmy, we say Sarah's name.

    "I'll be honest" is often used by people doing the opposite. So fess up, come clean. Who are you? What's your objective? I think you don't like Sarah and are using shame (jealous or very high school) to trigger emotional or aggressive responses about Sarah. Perhaps you want to generate a flurry of activity. What did she do to you? I'm interested in legitimate information. She fucked you over, didn't she?

    Thanks 🥸

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  • [–] 4 points 9 months ago (3 children)

    You seem nice. Yeah I did check reddit first and used the emojis to be nice. 🤷‍♀️

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  • [–] 6 points 9 months ago (2 children)

    Nice of you to call the members of this group, jealous or very high school.

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  • [–] 8 points 9 months ago (1 child)

    Right? Not exactly the best intro 🧐 Jealousy implies that we want what birdshit has. We don’t want fake followers (literal strangers!), filtered morals, or affiliate links disguised as ‘authenticity.’ Criticism isn’t high school jealousy Gereminator—it’s discernment. There’s a difference!! We also don’t compete with people who sell integrity for commission. She is an ugly, shameful woman and a poor excuse of a mother.

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  • [–] 8 points 9 months ago

    Jealous that I don’t plagarize articles and pass them off as my own? I’ll pass, that’s not someone I look up to or aspire to be. It’s ok to call out shitty people as shitty people.

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  • [–] 12 points 9 months ago*

    Jealous? Why would I be jealous of someone who is clearly not happy with their life so they have to filter every part of themselves on top of getting work done to make herself look better (no shame against getting work done!! It’s just she does it but still filters herself and lies about it!!!!). Unlike her I actually love my family and don’t want to spend endless days and nights separated from them. Why would I be jealous of someone who is now going through their second divorce? She couldn’t even keep a marriage with a man that was her fairytale because she cared more about herself and her need to be away from that man and their child every chance she got. Why would I he ienaoieofspmeoje who has been accused for cheating and that’s why her relationship ended?

    I don’t think anyone here is jealous of this trainwreck. But that’s always what people assume when she isn’t liked, you can just not like someone for the person they choose to be (and she chooses to be a shitty narcissistic one), it isn’t always about jealousy.

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  • [–] 12 points 9 months ago (2 children)

    Can you explain what you love about her content?

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  • [–] 10 points 9 months ago (1 child)

    It's been about the last 4-6 months I've not enjoyed her content as much. I don't follow any other influencers at all, she was the only one. I just liked her, I guess. I messaged her about 4 months ago telling her I has a dream about her and that she, Shane and bailey were super tall, like 8 feet and she replied to me (I was pumped!) saying she actually is really tall and responded only about herself. The glass ceiling started cracking

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  • [–] 11 points 9 months ago (1 child)

    I love how it’s always the jealousy card 😂 our lives are FAR RICHER than hers. We hate her because she’s a greedy, tone deaf grifter who doesn’t parent her children, abandons them any chance she can get to be a spoiled, privileged “influencer” and is also a pathological liar. “Body positivity” while shooting Ozempic, tox and fillers and also filtering allllll her own photos. She’s a lying, greedy, spoiled little brat who does absolutely nothing to deserve the life of privilege she lives.

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