I can’t agree with your statement that other countries are as bad. Noone else with possible exception of Russia and Israel is as bad as america right now. All three have nuclear weapons so they are effectively untouchable via kinetic warfare. All three have made or are making vastly aggressive actions against neighboring states and/ or allies. All three state that ‘might makes right’ and they should be able to take assets from other peoples because they can.
So you might be right that there are americans who might not like the leadership but you are judged by the leaders you elected and that might be unfair. But tell that to the people being subjected to starvation, terror, gunfire coming from direct and indirect american aggression and greed .