I only want to use it for facebook marketplace, but jeez i didnt know they were taking it this far with this crap...

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[–] 33 points 9 months ago (9 children)

I deleted my facebook account in 2022 and have essentially not been contacted by friends since, so there's that

:(

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  • [–] 5 points 9 months ago (1 child)

    Same happen to me and I realized that where not my friends! The question someone asked me then, was how many of them would remember your birthday?
    Phone numbers + messaging apps is good way to stay connected.

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  • [–] 8 points 9 months ago*

    To me, I dont care if my friends remember my birthday. I care if they are genuine friends and I have good conversations and laughs around them.

    Someone remembering your birthday is just them putting a reminder in the calendar. Doesnt mean much, not to me at least.

    So you have an actual human connection to these people? Friends could have a laugh over forgetting someones birthday, because its built on a real connection that doesnt go away over missing the small things.

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  • [–] 5 points 9 months ago (6 children)

    Have you tried to contact them outside of FB?

    Perhaps you're just not friends.

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  • [–] 18 points 9 months ago (5 children)

    I moved to a new town recently. People don't give out their phone numbers to connect. They give out their FB and Instagram accounts. Not having either is perceived as weird.

    Hope this helps.

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  • [–] 6 points 9 months ago* (4 children)

    You're in a fucked up town., and that attachment to the platform is more fucked up.

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  • [–] 3 points 9 months ago (1 child)

    That doesn’t help. Also when’s the last time you moved your life?

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  • [–] 3 points 9 months ago

    I already said I recently moved. I've moved 3 times in the past 10 years and it's all the same. Maybe people used Snapchat or Instagram more often than Facebook when I was younger but it's all the same privacy invasive shit.

    The majority tolerate it, that's why Meta is so successful as a company.

    Hope this helps.

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