But the state can dish out 'justice' all it wants, and that's somehow okay?
Yes, but it helps I live in a society where the justice system works a lot better than in dystopian shit holes like the US.
You literally give up your right to defend yourself and your community and in return you get policing and laws that benefit the ruling classes and industrialists.
Our system might not be perfect and our government has dropped the ball here and there, but it's definitely not that bad. And definitely nothing that warrants armed rebellion by the masses.