Well apparently I offended you and I’m sorry if I did.

I didn’t go on a forum and demand they speak English. I saw some disturbing imagery in german and said that this probably should be wider known. I trust you were the one doing that mod remove or will be able to find the exact wording.

This is the other thing. On good fast clients like Voyager, the community is really not that important or visible. People just respond and post. That’s it.

This is how it is supposed to work. I posted something in English on a German forum, didn’t know that that was a german forum to begin with, and it got removed. Fair and square. The mods have some custom rules, and they enforce them reasonably. No ban or permaban.

I once responded to a post on a women-only forum. My post was reported by a woman who was attempting to gender other users (and pointed to me because I have ‘king’ in the username). The moderator told me I wasn’t welcome, and I refused to be gendered and asked her to ban me to avoided future accidental comments. The key thing is that these are all online incursions that happen every day and they don’t result in permanent bans.

Autism can be self diagnosed, and don’t fucking talk to me that way. Not all of the world is full of snowflakes. You can in some places say forbidden words and be light about them without offending anyone.

Permabanning should not be a thing. It’s a disproportionate response to a barely existing problem. And if you have it, at least it should have an appeals process.