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We had to put my baby boy down (lemmy.world)
submitted 10 months ago by to c/dogs@lemmy.world
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For all the people that responded to my post some days ago. thanks again for all your kind words

Some sort of tumor on his 6th neck vertebrae had almost disintegrated it. He would have been in to much pain even if he managed to heal it.

Our vet came home to us and helped him on his way. We were there the hole way and i felt his little heart stop.

We buried him in the front yard yesterday...this summer i will plant peas on his grave...he loved them

He was only 8 months old...we had him for 6 months

My heart is broken and i will never forget you Marley. I love you my little baby boy.

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Thank you all for your kind words❤️ i hope you all have a new year full of love and happiness

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[–] 16 points 10 months ago (9 children)

I am so sorry for your loss. I've had two British Golden Retrievers from the same breeder that developed the exact same tumor and had to be put down. I will never again get a dog from that breeder and will likely never again get a purebred dog because of things like this.

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  • [–] 11 points 10 months ago (1 child)

    I'm sorry you had to learn this lesson in such a painful way, as this is why people advocate to ban breeders. "Purebred" is a myth and the dogs bred for those "desirable" looks are often so inbred that their family tree would resemble a circle.

    Breeders are usually scummy and do not care about the long term health of the dog, as they are a means of making money and little more.

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  • [–] 4 points 10 months ago

    Absolutely. I'd also like to add that people who insist on a certain breed can usually find a great breed-specific rescue to work with. I also see lots of breeds you wouldn't expect pop up in shelters and all breed rescues. I wasn't expecting to get a "purebred" dog myself, but a German shepherd was transported to the shelter I was working at, and we fell in love. It usually requires more work than buying a dog, but the rewards for yourself, your community, and that dog's life make it all well worth it.

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  • [–] 9 points 10 months ago (5 children)

    My state is moving to make it illegal to sell dogs, cats, and rabbits. I’ll be interested to see if it passes and if so, what kind of impact it has on shelters’ adoption rates.

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  • [–] 1 point 10 months ago (4 children)

    can you share any details? what country is that? how would that work? where would dogs come from, if they couldn't be bred for money?

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  • [–] 3 points 10 months ago (3 children)

    New Jersey in the US. I just looked for an update and it looks like it has been tabled after some pushback.

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  • [–] 1 point 10 months ago (1 child)

    thank you for the reply.

    while i in general agree with the idea of general regulation (just breed enough dogs that the shelters stay empty and not more than x litters per bitch), i think operators of unethical puppy mills should be hanged and i wouldn't be opposed to banning certain breeds (like the ones that were bred to the point where they can't breath and we call that cute), banning the sell for money seems strange - and not only because it would be quite easy to circumvent.

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  • [–] 2 points 10 months ago

    Family recently looked after a frenchie and 1) the labored breathing noises were upsetting to listen to, I felt bad for the dog, and 2) one of my dogs kept misinterpreting those noises as growling/aggression. 0/10, would never want to have a brachycephalic breed with the number of health issues they have and suffering it brings them.

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  • [–] 3 points 10 months ago

    Part of going to a breeder is they are able to show you the family tree and advise on what dogs have been bred in or bred out and why.

    I talk to mine once a year because they call up to check in on the doggos. They also have group chats for each litter.

    That's kind of like dog breeding 101; keeping an eye on the litters so they can identify good and bad traits, shaping future litters around that. So, I'm able to tell them what traits, personality, and fitness I'm needing in my next dog, and they are able to tell me when they're next planning a litter from dogs like that, or refer me to another good breeder.

    If you're not needing to do any of this and are just after a pet doggo, then there's really not much point of going to a breeder. And if a breeder isn't like this, they're likely just in it for quick money and you and the dogs suffer. Unfortunately there's quite a lot of "puppy farm" fuckheads out there.

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