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There’s something so uniquely terrifying about memory issues. I feel like my self is slipping away from me.
ace-disgrace-on-the-case - Here’s the thing I feel like a lot of folks don’t get: I’m not trying to forget what you said. Honestly, I really tried not to. I can’t control what I do and don’t remember—forgetting things just happens. It’s annoying for you, I know, but for me it’s distressing as hell and when you make a big deal out of it rather than just reminding me you make me feel ashamed. I’ll remember that, at least.
It costs you nothing to be kind to people with memory problems. Please. It’s scary enough without people treating memory lapses as a personal failing.

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[–] 3 points 11 months ago

I'm laughing bc I've been there on the other side 😂 I have organic brain damage in memory and focus areas, and I think finally after two years my partner realizes I literally don't remember conversations word for word, just the feeling and tone, then the info gets sucked up into my subconscious to be spit back out at occasionally the right times. He asks me to repeat back what I just said and I can't.

Thank you for making the effort to not be an asshole about it, your friend appreciates it more than you know.

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