It's so odd to me to think of genders, but non-bianry people makes a lot of sense to me. I don't see the need to constantly go through out my day worrying that my appearance or behavior doesn't align with some stereotype, and he/she/they are just words to me. Both trans and cis feel the need to constantly reaffirm their gender. Like a deep insecurity that they won't be treated they way they'd like, but I really don't think alpha males or whatever will grant you what you want. The real change is choosing to be who you want, not the label itself.