Similar-ish boat, my wife and I are both smart, differently. She can analyze through anything, given time and I've got a knack for quickly picking up knowledge. My only shot at winning Board games is on the first few playthroughs, after that, she tends to dominate or over-think it.

Unfortunately both of us also suffer from a lack of drive/follow through. We're doing okay in life, but some days I know we could be doing great if we both had focus. Instead, we're enjoying things while coasting. Life goals of a kid and a dog have been achieved, and I'm quickly becoming the least smart one in the house. (Kid has already gone through Neuro eval, that's their story to tell)

Oh wow, what can she do ?? what can you do ??