Literally yes, I didnt realize til I was older that it was pretty messed up for an older woman to have a romantic relationship with a 16 year old over the internet/phone.

Both her and her fiance played in the same guild I did, we would be in ventrilo most days for like two years straight.

She ended up getting upset when she overheard a friend of mine calling her a cougar, and we never spoke again.

I tried reaching out to her like a decade later on facebook but never got a response. I still feel really mixed emotions about the whole thing honestly.