It’s not the off topic or the inflammatory stuff I’m talking about, that stuff I think everyone can agree on.
The more I experience humanity the fewer I find of things "everyone can agree on".
I am saying that the model that Reddit and Lemmy enforce encourages people to create rules like “no democratic socialists” or “no electoralism” or “you can’t criticize Russia” that are widely seen by the populace as ridiculous and oppressive.
You'll never find me defending Reddit. I left it for many reasons and Lemmy is now my home. You give a few examples of rules you don't like (which I appreciate for context of understanding). However, one rule I'd have is "no white supremacists" and while I think that would be a pretty standard rule, audiences today are finding that objectionable, which is insane to me.