Aeao comments on Florida Republicans are furious that Muslims are using a voucher program meant to boost Christianity

[–] Aeao@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Wow I didn’t mean to come off as disingenuous.

It was a company that operated multiple schools.

If I had the source I wouldn’t be asking the question.

I know the phrase “just asking questions “ gets thrown around a lot but I’m literally just asking because I can’t remember the details and could absolutely be wrong.

Lastly it has nothing to do with the topic at hand. For the record I’m against the voucher program and for public schools specifically because education and religious education should probably be entirely separate.

Edit: you know what I take back my apology. I could not have been more clear that I was asking people for that story I heard a while back. Like I get we are all sensitive right now but it pretty obvious I wasn’t attacking anyone in any way.

You were all to lazy to look it up, like I was, so you hit downvote instead. I’m not sorry for my question. I phrased it perfectly. Including it was a single company with multiple schools.

I’m also a democrat. It’s tough times but we can’t eat our own. Answer questions or don’t. You aren’t helping anyone by assuming everyone has bad intentions.

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[–] ajoebyanyothername@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (1 child)

I'll just reply to both your replies, and original edit here, rather than separately. And just for reference, I haven't voted on any of your comments.

For me, it came off as disingenuous because you threw out an unrelated comment, seemingly to paint Muslim charter schools in a negative light, with no source, which came across in a similar vein to those who tell people to 'do your own research', or indeed who are 'just asking questions'.

I appreciate that you went back to look into it further, and maybe my response was overly combative; if so I apologise. But for future reference, the burden of proof is generally on those making a claim, not those trying to refute it, so that is likely where some of the negativity you've received is coming from.

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[–] Aeao@lemmy.world 1 point 1 year ago

I understand that. And I appreciate you coming back to meet me as an adult.

What I would disagree with in this rebuttal is I wasnt making a claim. I was asking a question. Again I understand the world we live in . “Just asking questions” is a common way for people to make claims without proof.

I was annoyingly careful to show I was looking for that information. I should have explained I was looking for it in case I get asked and had to argue about it.

So I’m still very disappointed people took it as an attack when i was awkwardly tripping over myself to explain that wasn’t my intent.

I’m very upset in a way I don’t normally get online. I feel really let down by our side today.

We aren’t going to get back on the right track without acknowledging ignorance is sometimes just ignorance. I was seeking information from a story I couldn’t remember at the time. I was asking for help. I was met with anger.

I feel this is why things have become so toxic. Obviously it’s the republicans fault it turned toxic but if we plan to turn it back we have to put in the effort. Even if I was trying to trash Muslims (i honestly wasn’t) someone has to educate me. It’s no one’s obligation but it needs to be someone’s job. It sure isn’t going to be the republicans.

So I’m very disappointed in how this played out, not because of my ego but because of what it means for our cause. We have to talk to people or it won’t get better.

But what do I know. I’m not anyone special. But I’m trying. We need to try. All of us.

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