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[–] 37 points 1 year ago (1 child)

So don't be a creep, meet people as they are, don't meet people expecting them to have sex with you

Work on yourself, go to therapy, get a hobby or read a book, join a reading group.

You have to be a part of a community to meet people. You can't just hang out on the internet posting about how unfair it all is, and expect anything to magically change

take care

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago

    Just for anyone else in the thread: this doesn't work lmao.

    I used to be depressed and anxious af. Took a break from uni, moved back in with my parents, went to therapy, got better, joined a book club, started hanging out more at social centers and talking to people, got a part-time job as a waiter, started working out and paying attention to my looks... still no gf. You can't become a successful person by merely going through the motions of what you think a successful person's life looks like. You can't cargo cult your way into happiness.

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