.......c'mon. I get it. I get what you're angry about. I get the logic. I'm not even saying you're wrong.
But I think the more important aspect here is getting care for anyone with special needs. We can point fingers and tell these parents "told you so" after we get people with special needs the help they need. THAT should be the priority.
Because the way I see it, this is like warning someone that their christmas tree lighting has some stripped wire and is a fire hazard. Then as their house is burning down putting the priority on gloating rather than getting people from inside the house to safety.
There's plenty of time to gloat after the fire is out.